Self-discipline Needed For Creating Lasting Change

Have you met Violet? A lovely, yet confused woman who has reached a point in her life where she has lost her identity trying to please everyone and now wonders if anyone even knows her name is Violet. She is identified as Mrs. So and So, So and So’s wife, mom, sister, daughter. Hubby calls her Hon, children call her Mom or Mrs. So and So.

As Violet grew, from a child into an adult, she learned how to become the person that she thought others want to see or be with.  If you have done this, then you too like Violet may think that, that is who you are. I encourage you to check in with yourself, are you being your authentic self, or have you adopted someone else’s idea of who you are so you could be acceptedlovedapproved? 

When you do things that are not genuine or a reflection of the real you, you will not be happy with yourself and will end up confused. You’ll be confused because you won’t know whom to please, or how.

How much are you a victim of circumstance and how much are you a victim of yourself?

It takes courage to accept yourself as you really are, not as someone else thinks you shoud be. It requires you to be introspective, authentic, open-minded and objective. It does not give you permission or mean that you are inconsiderate or disrespectful of others. It means that you will not let others define you or make the decisions for you that you need to make for yourself. This is not something easy to do on your own. You need support.   In the “You – Empowering – You” women’s group coaching course you will get 9 months of support from a group of like minded peers, plus me as your coach.

How long will you be content to live someone else’s story or beliefs?  When you choose to step up and stand in your being as an empowered woman, daring to love your true self, you create change.

644101_385239428271842_1108632231_nThis is where self-Discipline is needed. Self discipline is one of the key differentiators separating those who live successful and fulfilling lives from those who don’t.

The reality is with change there can be chaos. The subconscious wants things the way they were. Your subconscious wants to take you back to that familiar, comfortable place you created to survive and so does everyone else around you.

Self-discipline is simply unmatched when it comes to the problems it can solve and becomes a powerful teammate when combined with other tools like Coaching, passion and goal-setting,

Thus it is the very reason I chose ‘Self-discipline’ as the first session in the “You – Empowering –You” Women’s group coaching course.

“You – Empowering –You” is an empowering 9 month Women’s  group coaching course of like minded peers. You will be guided through an empowering journey that awakens you to Self-awareness, Self-discovery, Self- discipline, Self -acceptance,  Self-care, Self-love and your power of choice. 

 New Courses starting September 14th and September 17th 2015!!!

Click over to the information page to learn more http://raicoaching.com/you-empowering-you/

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Or you can pick up the phone and call me direct 908-362-0015

 Stay Empowered as you continue to Rise Above It, 

Warm Thanks, Marion

 

 

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